Saturday, February 18, 2017
Saturday, February 11, 2017
Feel Good Saturday ~ Dreams
Literally dreaming, but also daydreaming, and how to not let those ruin you. Why ruin?
Well, you know when we daydream about something and we imagine ourselves in a certain situation/scenario, and it never turns out the way we've imagined. This is not necessarily a bad thing, because most of the time it turns out even better than expected, but there are times when it doesn't and we end up disappointed and heartbroken. Whether it's a romantic scenario about your crush, or about a hard exam, or anything really, failure is a part of life. We are told that we need to follow our dreams and work hard, no matter what, but sometimes giving up on your dreams can be the best thing you've done. Best way to cope with that is having a plan B. Always have a plan B, or create a plan B after you experience some kind of failure. I've talked about transforming negative feelings into positive, and i've talked about how when i'm heartbroken i am feeling very creative and i use all those feelings and i transform them into art.
( http://donnaoctober.blogspot.mk/2016/06/feel-good-saturday-thoughts.html )
( http://donnaoctober.blogspot.mk/2016/06/feel-good-saturday-thoughts.html )
Everyone always says that giving up is the easiest thing, but is it? No. It's actually the hardest thing. And giving up on something, in this case a dream of yours, actually makes you even stronger, because you decide to throw away all of your hard work by that point. But, at the end of the day, if you weren't happy about your dreams anymore, you lost your enthusiasm and passion, it's not a bad thing to decide to give up and choose happiness instead.
Because, our dreams tend to be repetitive and we always approach them the same way, but sometimes we need to change something drastically to get good results.
Long story short, what i'm trying to say is that if being stubborn and persistent only makes you unhappy, then is not always the right thing to do, even though those two things are seen as good qualities in a person.
And think about all of the opportunities you've missed just because you were fixated on this one thing.
Some things are not meant to be yours. It sounds sad, i know, i've been there and it hurts, but things get better when you accept this, move on, and focus your energy on something new.
BUT, don't settle for less. If you change your dreams, don't downgrade. Just change the direction.
And say Yes to new things.
:)
And say Yes to new things.
:)
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